Every relationship has its ups and downs. But some downs are deeper than others. The following was written to help you answer the question of “is my boyfriend cheating on me?” I hope the answer is no, but if he is demonstrating the actions listed below he probably is.

Think back to how you met your boyfriend. If you found him at the tail-end of a relationship or “stole” him away from someone else you need to be constantly vigilant to him cheating on you. Once a cheater, always a cheater is very sage advice that I beg you heed.

Habits are easy to form and very difficult to break. If the behavior patterns of your boyfriend suddenly change an alarm signal should go off.  The oldest, most used and least accepted excuse for not being around is “I had to work late”.  That excuse is so old that it has become almost an admission of guilt.  Substitutes for “I had to work late” have become, going camping/fishing/hunting with the guys.  If he didn’t do these things before, why is he doing them now?

If starts being nicer than usual and buy you gifts without a reason, then you must take this as a sign of trying to keep you happy superficially.  He may become more loving towards you suddenly.  He may be doing all this because he is feeling guilty about his other relationship.  But things, do not matter.  Its true love and trust that really matters, not gifts.

I recommend that you question your partner, if he is receiving phone calls late at night or texts that he doesn’t want to talk about. These calls can often be how he and his mistress set up their next tryst. Even without the threat of infidelity looming though, it’s important for you to set limits and for him to value his time with you.

If he is spending all of his time on the internet, or reading emails that he hides from you, are bad signs. The internet has seen an explosion of dating/hook-up sites that he could be prowling. If you walk by the computer and he begins frantically closing windows you have a good indication that Mr. Wonderful is actually Mr. Sleazeball.

Be suspicious of his friends that never seem to busy when you aren’t around, yet can never make it to events that you are attending. If he has a friendship with this type of dynamic than you should become very worried; if something hasn’t happened already, one or both of them want it.

In an attempt to deflect your suspicions, he may accuse you of cheating. Cheaters tend to be the first to think that their partners are testing the waters. If you have given him no reason to doubt your intentions, but are being accused it could be a sign that you need to look for some of the other that your boyfriend is cheating on you.

You may see all of the above sings in your boyfriends, or just a few.  May be even just one sign, but its worth doing more investigation.  Take more time and concern with him, so you can resolve it fast and without spoiling time.  He may also want to flirt with two girls at the same time, so watch out.  There are all kinds of boyfriends around.  First its headache and then becomes heartache.  Best is to check status of your relationship before proceeding further or spending anymore time with you cheating boyfriend. So I hope this article has answered the question, is my boyfriend cheating?

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